Changes.........

Change is nature, the part that we can influence. And it starts when we decide." - Ratatouille

for few days now I'm thinking about changes, changes in all forms, changes that may affect one's life greatly, changes that we want and changes we dont expect, changes that we wish we could say "its for the better"

Maraming tao sa paligid ko ang nag hahanap ng malaking pag babago sa kanilang buhay, di ko man naiintindhan ang kabuuan pero alam kong may dahilan.... but it makes me think, do people really need drastic changes? do we need to change just for the sake of changing? or we should make changes when we feel the need for it?

then i came up with this.... drastic changes are not good... this is like forcing your self to become somebody else, these are the changes that may give you a short relief but you may take the toll for a long time, changes that may take your identity, forget who you really are and in turn forget what you are changing for...

for me.. if you really seek changes in your life, you should always take 1 step at a time, with this, every step will prepare you to take the next one, no stone will be left unturned and it will always remind you what are you changing for... and when you feel the changes you've done is enough, you can easily stop

then there are changes that we dont expect, nothing can really prepare us with this one but all we need is an open mind and the guts to face it and be flexible enough to cope with it.. the hardest things to break are the ones that can bend

change is inevitable, it will always be a part of who we are, who we will be and who we should have been.... dont hessitate to take the chance, make a choice or take the risk just because you are not sure if you are ready... you'll never know when you are ready anyways